I guess I won't get to try disengaging anytime in the near future. SO informed me last night he was NOT bringing his kids around because he doesn't want them to feel "uncomfortable." Gimmie a freakin break! Do you think they care about my feelings? HELL NO! Did his daughter care I was on my hands and knees scrubbing the floor and cleaning the kitchen after she made a horrible mess from baking after I told her THREE times if you want to bake something you have to clean up the kitchen. I was just getting over strep throat so I wasn't feeling my best either. Why always protect their feelings? When he tells the BO mom he isn't getting them, he always makes up an excuse and won't be honest with her and say they are disrespectful brats. Rewind that, I do believe he has said it to her before and her reply was "they don't do that for me." Well of course they don't, she can't find a man to commit to her because the kids run them off!

My bio children love my SO and he loves them very much even though they are not his biologically. It's hard to walk away when I know how much my children love him. But I don't think it's fair that his kids can destroy my children's stuff.

I moved into his house since my ex took over my mortgage and bills (not the right time to sell in my area.) He has three kids, I have three kids. He has a four bedroom house. How it was ORIGINALLY suppose to be set up that each kid had a roomate (only two kids in a room.) I don't think it was unreasonable since they are only here sometimes. But the eldest wanted a room to herself. WHY? Why should a bedroom sit empty for days and days at a time? After SO told her she had to share a room with HER OWN SISTER she said she wasn't coming over anymore and to this day she hasn't spent the tight. Every once in awhile she will come over when she wants something. So I thought at least the bedroom situation was situated. One kid down....Nope. His kids have destroyed, stolen, or lost things of my kids. What did I end up doing? I got pissed off last night and moved all my kids in ONE room so his kids will have their original rooms back and I don't have to hear the constant bitching and complaining. Maybe the eldest one will come back home. Not that I want her to but I don't want my SO not to have a relationship with her. I guess I should say he does have a relationship with her when SHE wants something.....