Ok-so I haven't blogged in quite a while, but I actually have let go of all of my anger towards BM n the resentment I felt towards DH on a multitude of levels-but mainly towards how he was handling his kids.....I am the testimonial that things CAN do a complete 180 and ur life can get back on track...as long as u both r on board!!!

That being said, my DH works out of state n drives home every weekend-since things have been resolved between BM n myself-she has begun to let the kids have more interaction with me-before DH would have to pick up kids on his way in-n drop off on his way out bc I was not allowed.....

This has been going well for a while now, and the option of a promotion for my DH has come up under the exception that his family moves to the same state....I am on board with this mainly bc it is hard to b away from ur husband all week n do everything for the kids!! But my main concern is that the skids WILL NOT take this well....they r still having issues with him leaving now-n he still gets his weekends with them, n some extra time here n there.....it will not b a good situation for anyone if we don't get to spend as much time with them-I'm concerned with him going back to the guilty daddy syndrome n them going back to acting like spoiled whimsy brats all the time when they r with us bc BM has done better-but still does not enforce things-n they still get away with a lot while in her care....

Also my husband is under the dilution that she will either b driving them half way, or letting them fly to us every other weekend.....I just DON'T see that happening....granted this whole ordeal is still in the "possibility" stages, but I would like some advice from anyone that has done or is doing the out of state visitation thing....Thank u for any input!