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This is so hard for me

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Submitted by momsome on Thu, 03/07/2013 - 8:54pm

I know that I still have almost 3 more months with my SKs but they are going to be gone the entire summer and I am going to miss them like crazy..They can make my life crazy, busy and sometimes hectic but even when they are gone on the weekends I still miss them. Not having them around for 3 months during the summer is going to be SO HARD for me...not to mention, its never easy when they come back home after being with their Bio mom, they come home fighting all of the time, upset, crying, nightmares, angry, they put themselves down all of the time, they ask me and their dad every 2 seconds, if we really love them. Its just never easy. But that's there mom so what can I do about it. Any way, not expecting a lot of feed back just wanted to express how I feel. At least I finally after 3 years get to go on a REAL VACATION with my boyfriend since the kids will be gone!!!!

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Submitted by oncechoosetosmile on Thu, 03/07/2013 - 9:45pm

Good on you. Smile Could I send you SD for the holidays instead as an replacement for your skids to make your life" crazy, busy and hectic"? Maybe a few more posters could help out, too? Wink

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Submitted by momsome on Thu, 03/07/2013 - 10:20pm

OH NOOOO I dont do girls....I promised myself that If I dated a man with kids they would have to be BOYS!!!....girls are a pain in the ass. I know I am the extreme daddys girl...LOL...my dad for the first time in 60 something years finally got a serious girlfriend and I still dont like her!!...it comes with it boys are more mommys boys and tend to bond more with the mother role than the father role...LOL..I dont do girls I've thought about having a girl because my boyfriend gets so upset that his Bio children love me so much and push him to the side..LOL...but if he had girls I would have run for the hills...I was a hand full and couldnt handle a little me...LOL!!..good luck!!!..lOl..how old is she?

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Submitted by oncechoosetosmile on Thu, 03/07/2013 - 10:35pm

I am the same, I don't want girls, hahah, momsome, please take her, you will be bored....She will be good for you, I am the only one with issues.She is 8 now and you can return her in 10 years when she has grown out of her crown:)))Then you can go on your holiday!I have already a girl and two boys myself , love all three, but I didn't see in my contract that I have requested another girlie! :O

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Submitted by momsome on Thu, 03/07/2013 - 11:04pm

I am so sorry (oncehoosetosmile) I wouldnt take a girl if you paid me. I was hell on wheels when it came to my dad. Probably the worse any women has ever met. So with what I know and what I've done as a step daughter!!...H**LLLLLLLLLL...no I would offer a night out with the girls if you were close enough...LOL!!! drinks, drinks and more drinks...LOL!!