Day 6 since blocking BM from both of our phones.
Day 10 since either of us have heard from SD.
I texted her to say hi and see how she was, and not surprisingly she didn't answer me. SO won't call or text her. He wants nothing to do with her right now after what she did.
I can completely understand where hes coming from. It's really hard for him, but hes sticking to his ground. She's 13. She is more than capable of calling or texting him and apologizing for what she did, but BM puts in her head that since he is the parent it should be up to him to call HER. Sorry, not this time. She messed up. Huge. In SO eye's its almost unforgiveable.
I finally got ahold of the counselors and they allowed SO and I to go in for a meeting on our own at the end of the meeting with SD and BM. I can't wait to see the look on BM's face when she sees us there.
After this meeting and we see what we are dealing with with SD, SO is going to make his decision about whether he continues visitation with SD.
Its gonna be a long week!