It has been what, less then 12 hours since I posted about BM not getting our shit anymore? Well, yup, that didn't last very long. She called DH today to tell him that SD failed yet another math test. She said the teacher sent home a note saying that SD is not paying attention in class at all and that she can't grasp the new math concepts because she doesn't care to listen and learn. This is no surprise to me. I knew this was going on since the beginning of school this year.

Anyway... the teacher said she thought it would be a good idea to get SD a math tutor for the summer. BM starts yelling about how it isn't fair to her because it will probably have to be on her time during the week. DH told her we would work something out, and she said she knew what she was going to do and it was having SD every other weekend like she said she was going to. DH tried to tell her how unfair it was for her to be taking his time away and that he would literally go from 50/50 to only seeing SD 4 days a month. BM said she didn't care. She said if he didn't give her every other weekend then she was going to court and I shit you not she actually said she had CS money saved from her other kids father and that her mom would help her pay for the lawyer :jawdrop: Really BM once again you run to your mommy for support! Grow the fuck up you stupid cow!

DH said... "well I guess we will see you in court then and when you end up getting screwed, and you will, I don't want to hear your shit because you brought it on yourself. When they say that we have to go every other holiday you can bet your ass I will follow the court order to a T and you WILL NOT have shared holidays with me anymore. When it says that you have to do half of the driving, you bet your ass that MotherTrucker or I will NOT be doing your share of it. Oh and if you go after CS good luck because I found out that if your are self employed in our state they go off of your schedule C and it shows I make less then 10,000 a year. And we cover SD medical and that will be factored in as too".

Is what he said true?? I have no effin idea, but it shut her the hell up. To the court house we go I guess. Oh well, no matter what the outcome, it has needed to be done for years. Wish they both hadn't been so stupid to think they would live happily ever after on the "verbal" agreement to parent SD the way that they have been. To tell you the truth, after all of the drama in the last year, it would be a blessing in disguise if I had every other weekend free from SD. I just wish it didn't break DH's heart the way it does.