So my DH wrote THIS to our BM today...

Just thought I would give you a heads up. SD9 had an eye appointment yesterday and her vision has actually gotten better. She only needs her glasses now for reading, in the classroom or when she watches TV and plays video games. So, when she goes outside to play she can leave them inside. I'll probably just send her with her old pair though, that way if something happens to them or she forgets them at the end of the visit it's not a big deal.

Making sure you know it's your responsibility to come get her and bring her back home. We don't have the money at this time to do either and it's not our responsibility anyway. You can pick her up on the 26th and have her back by the 2nd.

I have decided that since you want to keep all of the things that you buy her there, then I don't feel that I need to send her with anything. We provide all her clothing, food, and other needs while she's here and so while she's at your house you can do the same.

I love it because he didn't even acknowledge her new marriage or anything in the least. Just straight to the point and over... it's going to piss her off though and I KNOW it. Can't wait to see what she writes in response.