So the BM didnt allow SD7 to come to visit for the past two occassions yet allowed SS3 to come. This was because she was accusing my SO of basically emotionally hurting her. So the BM called the mental health team in, told them that the SD's issues were due to her dad and his lack of ability to parent. They assessed the SD and told the BM that it wasnt the case instead, as we had told the BM, they said she was a little girl confused by the separation of her parents. The team advised the BM to allow contact.

Now, the BM sat on this information for a week or so. Then, suprise suprise, she turns round at the last moment and allows contact. Why? As the SD has informed us 'mummy has her anniversary tonight'. So, no baby sitter avaliable, ok, bugger, lets let the dad have her then so I can have my night out.

Game playing. Lets see what happen next.