I have SD blocked and deleted on Facebook and I haven't been able to look at her account since early January. Today one of my friends who is also friends with my DH was on her Facebook..she got on his page to ask him about getting together with her and her husband when he travels for work next month and then from across the room told me she always laughed at the posts from his daughter. I never see them because I have her blocked and anything she writes cannot be seen by me.

In fact, DH has never been friends with SD on Facebook he says. Hmmm...

She's 20..her posts were how she missed her daddy..how horrible her marriage is..and of all things...how she's so GODlike. She's discovered God suddenly..said she always has believed but has found out that she was 'missing' something. And how she firmly believes God made her mother because that's why she was born..her son is her purpose. The same woman that lets her drug dealing alcoholic mother keep him all the time...alrighteethen...

My DH was responding to her like she was 6 years old. It was one of those things like a car wreck..you don't really want to look but can't help but do that very thing.

Where I had posted on his page she had responded to me a few times which I've never seen due to having her blocked. Her responses were as if she and I were such buddies..and all to make herself look good in her dad's eyes.

She's clearly the master manipulator I thought she was..lol. Her posts clearly have the 'oh woest me' crap that she likes to pull. She was whining about how he hasn't yet come to her new apartment yet..and honestly..he can visit her anytime he pleases. He'll just have to do it without me. I don't care if he goes daily..he's making the choice to not go. I know my DH - he really feels he and I should be going together to visit her..he doesn't want to go alone. So when he comes to me again..he'll be met with my usual NO.

I can GUARANTEE without any certain doubt that she is pleading her case to him on how she's not welcome here..how she's reached out to me to only get ignored. I honestly don't care if I ever see her again. I know there are going to be times I'm going to have to be around her due to her being his family, but my intention is to totally ignore anything she says and does.

Not only is he talking quite a bit to her but he is on his work phone. He has a Blackberry and was having trouble with it and asked me to work on his Apps. Swore he had a client's number in it and couldn't find it..so as I looked for this number, his daughter's number was all over his call logs.

I never said a word. Actually I pretty much thought this is going on.

All I can be thankful for is that she can't call our own cell phones...she and her entire clan is blocked. Has been since January and will NEVER be unblocked. I pay our cell phone bill and she will never be able to call any phone I pay for. She has his work number..better be enough because that's all she has.

It's almost like he is sneaking to talk to her..but yet, he's really not. There is nothing I can do to stop him talking to his daughter. I can't change that fact at all and if he wants to have a relationship with someone that tells him she hates him almost monthly - go for it. Someone that steals from us on a regular basis - go for it. Someone that disrespects your wife as she has me with her big mouth - go for it.

DH is simply not ever going to see the light. As much as I'd like him to...just ain't gonna happen.