Well, it's been a little while since I posted. I would like to say that this is due to the fact that BM isn't a d*mb @$$ anymore but hahahaha nooope that's not at all possible lol

Recently my SO and I have been talking about moving to a bigger place, he is making more money now, as am I so I feel like it's time for us to go from where we are. Well this comes up in conversation with BM because we have to give her notice if we are planning on moving. So instead of finding a place and then springing it on her we just decided to tell her ahead of time.

SO GET THIS!!! Last week my SO and I are sitting at home watching tv, he get's a text from BM saying oh BTW i'm moving this weekend :/ UM ok....thanks for the advanced notice. Not that we care what she does, she's welcome to move if that's what she wants to do but it was as if she did it just because we had spoken of moving and she needed to have one up on us and do it first. The place she was living was a dump anyways so it is better that she is out of there but I just thought that was a little ridiculous lol

Another note it drives me absolutely bonkers the way BM treats SS's clothes! I do not think that SS needs to look perfect every single day but I would like for him to look taken care of. When he comes over here in clothes from BM they look terrible! It's as if there is no sorting of the clothes at all and everything gets thrown in the wash together and I HATE IT!!! I am not too anal about how things look but when every article of clothing that comes from her looks like it is 10 years old because everything is faded and EVERYTHING has the little balls all over it, it drives me absolutely insane. I have had my SO talk to her about it a million times, not that we are trying to tell her what to do, well I would like to tell her a few things but I bite my tounge. When we buy things for my SS we do not give these things to her unless we have noticed his clothes starting to look really bad or things aren't fitting him properly anymore. We keep them here and he gets changed the night he comes here, I wash the clothes that he comes in and he gets sent back to her in what it was he came in when he goes home a couple days later. We are responsible for purchasing all NECESSARY things for him like snow suits and boots and things like that (this was a choice we made ourselves) I wish for just once she would treat things well, I mean it's not hard to sort things or turn things inside out so they don't look like garbage after being washed twice!!!

Just venting to my other Stepmama's