I'm scared sh*tless. SOs first face to face with GU that will take place ALONE. EKK! As of now the plan is that I will not be meeting her this weekend. Then our first weekend visit with SS4 and SD2. Add in that I have a 5 month old and resident SD10 who is a nightmare.
I'm a wreck right now. Why am I so concerned about these kids liking me and liking my apartment?? SD10 hates me and claims she hates living here. Am I seriously setting myself up here?? Anyone have any advice on the first meeting? How do I stay firm and set rules but also have them like me? When I met SD10 it was totally different and not even that big a deal to SO but hes making this into a HUGE DEAL. He wants everything perfect. Even though in reality I've "met the kid" before this feels totally different. For one, I know what I could be getting into.