is there a law on PAS against a stepparent
Is it ok for a BM or BF to continually put down the other parent's spouse infront of the kid and make up lies and stories and try to get the kid to hate the stepparent out of jealousy and spite. This makes it hard on the other parent when their kid hates their spouse and no matter what they say the kid will still go back to the other parent and get fed the B.S again. Is their any law on this? Particularly in florida?
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http://www.leg.state.fl.us/St
http://www.leg.state.fl.us/Statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&U...
Thats the Florida Statute that deals with divorce. The home page for all statutes is http://www.leg.state.fl.us/Statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Index&Tit... it is hunt and peck but there is child support etc etc in there.
In short, no there is no specific law. However, the courts in Fl typically due recognize and despise PAS and would recognise PAS of a step parent to be PAS of a parent.... because if the kid hates the step parent they are not going to want to spend time with the parent associated with that step parent.
Nope. Some courts are better
Nope. Some courts are better than others about recognizing it, though.
In theory a lawyer could
In theory a lawyer could probably pitch that as PAS against the other parent, since the other parent and stepparent are now a unit.
I am a new step mom, my step
I am a new step mom, my step son is 7 yrs old and adores me. We have him 50% of the time and we always have a lot of fun togather. My issue is his mother, she hates me and is saying nasty things about me to him.... Tonight at dinner he tells me that at mommys house everyone calls me dirty dusty and laughs. ( my name is Dusty)... He says he doesn't mean it and he loves me, he just has to lie to mommy so she will be happy.... I want to confront her and tell her she is teaching him to lie to her while also using PAS against me which is causing issues at our home. And probably affecting him in a bad way too. My husband says she won't care, that's probBly what she's trying to do. It's just hurting her/ our son, cause he doesn't fully understand. We pay this woman $900 a month and she can't even be give us peace.... We also have a daughter, 10yrs old, her mom. And I get along great, we talk on the phone, she stays for dinner when she comes to pick up our daughter for a weekend. It's so easy on that side. Any suggestions on how to deal with the other mom? Is it worth going to a lawyer? There's more than just calling me names, she also tells him they r moving far away where no one. can find them and he will have to ride an airplane to see us. She threw his bday card away because I signed it. Tells him me and daddy r gunna get a divorce.. Scribbles my initials out of his reading log when I read with him and sign off.... I wish she could see how good I am to him, he could've got a crazy step mom that treats him like crap.
I am mostly venting rt now, my husband and I just got n a huge argument over this. I just get my feelings hurt n dont kno how to deal, any suggestions on how to beat this B**** with out actually beating her would help.....
It is hard, but these babies
It is hard, but these babies r all I'll ever have, so I'm n for the long haul....