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Newstep's picture

I don't know why I let this woman get to me. She is so predictible in her inability to parent without input from BF. She was so dependent on him for everything financially as in he went to work and brought home the paycheck while she did nothing. She also ruled the roost as far as any decision making. So now she is acting like she never made a decision without his input. He never had any input while they were married and if he voiced his opinion he was shot down. As long as he brought home a paycheck that is all she was worried about.

Now she can't make a decision without him all in the name of co-parenting. Then she does the same thing she always did and does it her way. :? Drives BF nuts so he stopped wasting his time on discussing things with her. It always turned into her telling him what to do anyways. That is what co-parenting is to her, she tells him what to do and he does it. Now that he has stood up to her she can't handle it!!

So now we are back to "poor little me I can't handle life all alone" act that she does so well. So far this week she has called every night (he ignores the calls) then text after text. For random stuff she can find out on her own if she took the initiative to do so. What time is SD's meeting this week? SD needs her black shoes I have to go pick them up. SD misses you and wants to say hi (SD got her phone taken away for a week) SD needs this or that. We can't have a peaceful evening with out her blowing up his phone. He can't turn it off because of work he has crews working at night who might need to get ahold of him. Then she will leave long 5 min voice mails about how she wants to get along with him but he makes her mad and it is all his fault when she has to get mad at him :jawdrop:

Just another chapter in the BM drama book. She must be bored with her life because she is driving us nuts!!!

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Amazedstepmom's picture

$10 a month to add a second line to most cell plans. Think I'd get a 2nd phone and have her # blocked from calling the 1st. This was you can turn it off.

SisterNeko's picture

OMG do we have the same BM? lol. My BF has started calling her out on stuff and she always says - "we talked about this already" and BF says, "No you TOLD me what WE were doing and didn't let me get a word in about it."

it's never ending. But she does call him to let him know what HIS thoughts and feelings are about things - which is so nice of her.