So after work yesterday, I went home and made dinner like usual. DH came home and during dinner we were discussing the wedding. We are having engagement pictures done today (should be interesting) and we have the SD. He asked me if I would feel awkward if he wanted some pics of just me and her. Now I have been lucky in the fact that I have been involved since SD was born. She is 13 months now and literally stays under my feet when she stays with us. I call her cuddle bear and just adore that little girl. And she is extremely fond of me. I have the advantage that she corresponds her daddy with me. I told him that it was completely his decision. He also let me know that he had decided that even tho he wants his family invited to the wedding, we weren't going to discuss any of it with them. Doesn't really want them too involved. (YAY) I really didn't want them involved either. Way less of a headache. It's just gotten to the point I don't trust them and would rather keep them at arm's length. They say they want DH happy but start drama whenever possible. I have never understood people like that. They love to start it but want no involvement once things blow up.