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Well ive had it and im done....

nicole's picture

FH had voice mails from an unidentified caller.....the voice on the other end sounded like the ex whispering...She said I was thinking about you and call you later.....Then message 2 said I wont call again just thinking of you....He says it is the wrong number of course, no number showed...so how does he know..It was her, sounded like her......Im pissed......

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nicole's picture

no number showed, and just found out that there anniversary would have been in a couple days.....Now tell me who calls your cell phone and leaves messages twice and its the wrong number??

nicole's picture

it showed private, so now what?? He swears up and down it wasnt anyone he knows......Bit i beg to differ....

Grumpy's picture

Did you try to trace it? If you get another call you can report it to the phone company too. There is a certain number of calls and then it is harassment. Not to mention being in contempt? If my SS BM was only that stupid!!! lol

The light at the end of the tunnel is NOT a train!!

melis070179's picture

doesn't worked on private #s or blocked calls.

"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"

Goodstepmom's picture

Tell your dh to call her and ask if she left 2 voice messages, of course the speaker phone is on so you can hear everything lol. If he really doesn't know who it was or if he really think's it wasn’t hear, then im sure he wont have a problem calling her . Just don’t let her know that you know about the voice messages, if she knows that you heard them, she will probably lie about it. Just let your dh call and ask.

MIL - Mother in law , in my case MONSTER in law

LauraHelton331's picture

Were the messages on a private line of DH'S? His cell? Or was it the household line?

Sia's picture

just cut my losses and go. Since he has caused you so much pain already!

BMJen's picture

His cell was broken, she found out from SD. When we got a new one he was listening to messages and he said hey StepmomJen, come listen to this! It was Beast Bitch, "Hey lover, I can't wait to see you again......muuuuuuuahhhhh" LMAO!!!! It was her sexiest, drunkest voice ever! We laughed, saved the message, listed some more, and laughed some more! He called her later and asked her why she left such a stupid message........oh her, no way, she didn't leave a message. Then when SD 20 came over DH let her listen to it, she said, yeah that's mommy!

I think they do it to make us wonder if DH is cheating. He probably is careless about it becuase he's like, what's the big deal....it was a wrong number....or if it was her who cares? You know how they are.

If you are truley worried I would have him call her on it, on speaker phone.