I think I hurt SO's feelings

Last night we were lying in bed watching a movie. I have no idea what it was called but part of the theme is this guy, Judd?, is getting a divorce and finds out his STBX wife is pregnant. In the meantime, Judd meets another woman and they sleep together.

In one scene, Judd and new girl are walking down the street together and Judd gets a call from STBX wife and walks a few steps ahead of new girl. The new girls looks sad.

I start talking to the sad girl on the TV....Run, Run, change your phone number, move, just run...It's gonna be BM calling and intruding for your whole life.
SO says...She shouldn't even give the guy a chance.
ME....No

He got really quiet after that. I think it hurt his feelings. I didn't mean to, but it's true. The STBX hadn't even had the kid yet and she was calling.

Oh yeah, and one other thing I said....Earlier that day SO joked about stealing the little boy down the street because he's so cute. I said, Oh no, 9 more years and our prison sentence is up. Not backtracking. He didn't like that either. Oops

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How nice that your husband

How nice that your husband understands what you've been through.

I told my husband I wouldn't do it all over again and he was upset about it.

Yeah, two of SO's friends

Yeah, two of SO's friends were dating. The women has three kids and her oldest is 16 and has a kid.

After the guy decided it was too much and broke it off (about six months), I told SO that it's not easy being with someone that as kids. He got really pissed. Which is funny because BM has two kids from another guy and SO talks about his EX SS never respected him and was a nightmare. Crazy.

That is too funny... my SO is

That is too funny... my SO is the same! One day I asked him to tell me what was so wrong with BM's other kids. He started spouting off - manipulative, greedy, sneaky, mean, etc. I stopped him and said, "And YOUR kids are raised by her, too. What makes you think they are any different?"

*Crickets*

We were wrapping presents for

We were wrapping presents for all the kids last night. DH left for a week for work out of town so that's why we were doing it last night. DH said how should I address from me to your kids "Dad, Daddy first name, First name". I told him it didn't matter because my kids call him all those, whatever he was comfortable with. So he writes "daddy first name" so I jokingly said I would never put "mom" anything on your kids stuff, not even "stepmom" because BM would probably exploded from being so pissed.

DH then says, "explode, cool then we could have all the kids full time". I said "nope, that's a no go buddy, don't want that". DH just looked down and dropped the conversation.

Sorry Bud! You procreated with Crazy and I'm not living with a skid full time.

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