AHHHH. I get so tired of men and their selective memory.

We have three dogs. The larger dog stays in the living room at night and the two Mini Schnauzer's (MS) stay in the room with us. I got MS1 when I lived alone and he slept in the bed with me. We got MS2 together and from the beginning I said I didn't want him in the bed with us. Just no room. But BF says he's so cute and slowly starts letting him stay in bed with us until it's an every night thing.

He complains on and off about not wanting three dogs (even though when we got the third dog, MS2, he said if I wanted him he would pay 1/2. Sounded like he was ok with it to me). He uses the dogs as a thing to bitch about when he's in a mad mood. We got two of the dogs together and I've offered to find a home for the larger dog even though I really don't want to because we have had her since she was a couple of months and we are the only family she knows.

Fastward to a month ago, the day we found a file of poop and pee filled underwear in SD10s room. BF starts on about how he doesn't want the dogs in bed with us. He's screaming about it. I think he's taking his anger about SD out on me. Ok, I made them stay on the floor. Had to keep waking up in the night to put them back on the floor but I was working on it. Two days later it's the weekend and he says they can stay in the bed on the weekends. Ok, dogs don't know from weekends. Then he said they can just sleep back in the bed. I specifically told him that HE was making this decision and I fine with making them sleeping on the floor.

Well, BF woke up in a mood today. Yelling (at 6am) about how he doesn't want the dogs in the bed. How he's told me this over and over and I care more about the dogs then him. I told him that he made the decision to let the back in the bed. Just on and on about how he's the "Man" of the house and I don't need to back talk. So I just ignored him and went into the living room. How do you have a conversation with someone that is purposely forgetting their part in the whole "problem". As far as I'm concerned, he started this whole mess.

So now, how am I supposed to retrain two dogs to stay off the bed. And I'm guessing whatever progress I do make he will undo when he gets sappy for MS2s sweetness. I can't keep them in the living room because they just sit out the door and cry all night. I have tried to crate them but MS2 was in a cage for 5 months when we got him and he freaks out when I put him in a crate. AHHHHH, MEN.