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Mini wife or sweet? Take you pick!

No saint's picture

Not sure if this is setting a good precedent: https://www.facebook.com/marcelocrivella/videos/884888744867710/
What are your feelings about it?

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twoviewpoints's picture

I'm sure you'll have plenty of SMs here agree and go on about 'yes mini wife'. Just my opinion but I see nothing wrong with having a tea party and play date with Daddy. It was sweet, innocent and absolutely nothing inappropriate in it and/or about it at all. I don't read other languages so can't speak to what all was said. However I see nothing wrong in making his little girl feel special for an afternoon. Nothing entitled and/or over the top in it. Simple. Fun.

May I ask, if it was a video of a mother spending the day with her daughter be different?

No saint's picture

I have no strong opinion about it, hence the post and asking for your thoughts.
The only thing that may "tickle" me a bit is calling it "a date" and making such a fuss about being a date. Besides that,I see nothing wrong as I believe that both parents should have alone quality time with their children.

Disneyfan's picture

SWEET,SWEET,SWEET

Saw this a few months ago and chuckled thinking about how some on steptalk would react to it.

katielee's picture

The only thing that kinda bothered me about this video was how nervous the father acted before the date, like he was willing to do anything to please his "date" that turned out to be his daughter. That's not how a father/daughter dynamic is supposed to work. That kind of dynamic will create spoiled, entitled mini-wives who think their dad exists to make them (and only them) happy.

Otherwise, having tea with his daughter, spending a day at the park... nothing wrong with that. Doing this "special day" every day, or even every week, especially with this "OMG I gotta please her" attitude will, indeed, create a Mini-Wife.

Lemonlimez's picture

I think it's precious. Now if the girl was a teen and dad was that gushy, it would creep me out a little bit.
DH takes skid 1 by themselves all the time for dinner and movies. This is my time too to catch up with friends and family or have me time.
And I'll be honest and say I would have loved my dad to do that for me as a kid. But no.

Lemonlimez's picture

I think it's precious. Now if the girl was a teen and dad was that gushy, it would creep me out a little bit.
DH takes skid 1 by themselves all the time for dinner and movies. This is my time too to catch up with friends and family or have me time.
And I'll be honest and say I would have loved my dad to do that for me as a kid. But no.

Tuff Noogies's picture

awwww!!!!!!

yeah i agree with a few posters above who said the whole acting nervous and calling it a date and stuff was a bit over the top. but having tea and going to the park - that's something all parents should do from time to time. from what i've heard most little girls like the whole princess thing and tea party, dress up thing. i think it's very sweet that the daddy took time to play on her level and in things she was interested in.