I've decided to lay low..
As always, I get some really great advice from the group. I may not always agree, but I do take every comment/suggestion and think them over. This page has offered me a wealth of clarity over the years that I cannot find anywhere else. Even close friends are just not helpful. Maybe a listening ear, but as far as problem solving..its just really tough unless you are in the trenches of this crazy step-world.
So anyway, letting the smoking weed video info go. I know deep down I will achieve absoutely nothing by telling this to DH. More than likely he won't he even respond. Are my bios angels? Hell no and I'm confident he'd be quick to point that out too.
Thanks again Y'all and I'll keep you posted.