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SD seeing psychologist

nunya1983's picture

Dh has found to a psychologist to get sd evaluated.

It will be a few months before she can get seen, due to space. If there is an opening before that they will contact us.

Now we just have to keep it a secret and not let it slip. We have it written in code on our dry erase calendar. It says Dr. Pepper run lol dh made that up.

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nunya1983's picture

Bm HAS interfered, that's why we have to go and pay out of pocket, instead of using insurance, because at first we let bm know, she ruined 2 of SD's appointments, then we didn't tell BM, but she called and found out the appointments, ruined those appointments, I forget how many appointments have been made that BM interfered with, but the doctor won't allow SD to have any more appointments.

Now we are going under the table, SD can't even know, because then BM will know, because SD tells bm everything. And bm ruins everything

Disneyfan's picture

Dad can talk to SD about going to see someone without giving her a date, time, location and the doctor's name.

That way he prepares her for the visit without giving her enough information for mom to interfere.

nunya1983's picture

Yes, dh and her share 50/50, but every time dh has made an appointment in the past bm found a way to keep SD out of the appointments. It would be something for a wedding so she'd pick SD up, and not bring her back. Then dh goes to pick up SD, bUT nobody would be home. Another time, Bm would say SD was sick, and she wants to keep her home. Another time it would be that she had a dental appointment scheduled same day and forgot, I could list more excuses, but ultimately dh didn't have to let bm take SD, so he is truly also at fault... but right now he doesn't want to tell BM, maybe when it's closet to time for the appointment... and yes, maybe she is trying to hide something, i don't know. We already know she complete raging lunatic.