It's so quiet! I'm loving this. Me and dh have had time to talk with out interruption. He and I seem to be on the same page. I am going to allow my kids to stay at my parents while SD is over, and I am in agreeance with him to take SD wroth him to see bm's father and talk to him about threats and the seriousness of it. He talked to BM about what SD said and BM seemed just as shocked as we were. With her father being a police officer, she understood the seriousness of threatening something (one thing bm and dh agree on).

I hope that this talk with grandpa sinks in and she understands the severity of what words can do.