So after a recent post about how Voldemort isn't supposed to contact me, she does. She sent me a text yesterday asking if ss9 could come over because he wanted to hang out with dd9. I responded with, "Sorry DD and I have plans so tonight is not a good night."

When I got home, I needed to drop ysd15 off at Voldey's place, (ysd is watching dd for a couple of hours during the week between when dh goes to work and when I get home), and there was ss sulking on the porch while Voldemort was pressure washing her driveway. She walked over to start chatting and I said, "Hey, we have tickets so we gotta scoot, have a good evening!" and drove away.

I know that she wants to dump ss on me using dd a an excuse...at least for the most part. The problem is that dd doesn't want to spend that much time with ss because he's an angry, bratty little dude most of the time - dh and I decided that it's best for ss to just be here on dh's days off, like Voldemort made EXCEEDINGLY clear, http://www.steptalk.org/node/217600 , that ysd and ss are not to be here when dh isn't home. We worked something out with ysd to baby sit because technically I'm not home and only dropping her off straight after I get home from work.

I do feel a little bad for the kid, but I refuse to allow his issues to create issues for dd; her father and I have put everything into making sure she is a happy kid.

Also, it just annoys me that Voldey is SO DESPERATE to spend time with the flavor of the month, that she is repeatedly trying to dump her kids off on my. UGH.

I don't even keep her as a contact in my phone AND I ignore any calls that I don't recognize. I feel like if I didn't respond at all it would've made a mountain out of a molehill, I just HATE having to speak to her at all.