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AHH is no longer in denial

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 05/02/2014 - 5:45pm

Well, first the good news. My kids BD didn't make a big deal about me moving. It is about 30 min closer to him and they are going back to their old school so he seemed cool with it... At least today.

AHH called on my way home from work and after I dared tell him he needs to pay for his and SS's health insurance ($320 a month). He said that I only ever make him pay his own bills when I am mad at him (true...). He asked if I was planning on leaving, I told him yes, and reminded him that we talked about that last Sunday. He lost it. All the threats about me losing my kids, what a terrible mother I have been to ss, etc. He said I deserve to be alone.... I know he is just trying to hurt me but that one stung....

At least I am not getting tag teamed, but these next 29 days are going to suck a big one.

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 05/02/2014 - 5:53pm

I will admit that I totally disengaged but lord knows even BM said that I am the only real parent he ever had!

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Submitted by hereiam on Fri, 05/02/2014 - 7:55pm

I would have told him, "You are right, I do deserve this. I do deserve to be alone instead of being with an asshole. And I will be much happier, too, and treat myself much better than you ever have. Someday, when you are old and alone, I hope you look in the mirror and remember me. Remember what you had."

"And newsflash, I am not SS's mother and never wanted to be."