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overworkedmom's picture

Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 12:44pm

I answered the phone again last night... I know, I know.

Here is what got me-- He promised that he was going to get on antidepressants or whatever the dr recommended for him to stabilize his mood. THEN he offered to give up custody of SS :jawdrop:

Yep folks, after being told for 3 years that I don't matter and that he will always choose his son over me he is now willing to completely give up his kid to get me back. The thing is, I never wanted that to happen. I just wanted to be backed up and the kid taught general respect to the adults in his life. Can you imagine how that would be thrown up in my face if I agreed to go back if he gave up SS??

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DaizyDuke's picture

Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 1:25pm

THIS!^^^ He is looking for the easy street. Give up his "problem" rather than work to fix it and get his gravy train back all in one fell swoop. Honeymoon would last about 6 months and then the first time that poster bats an eyelash improperly, SS would be promptly thrown in her face.

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Submitted by rainbow bright83 on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 12:57pm

I agree, him giving up his kid would be thrown in your face every chance there was. I know. I have it thrown in my face over and over. Be happy that your out and move on.

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 1:30pm

I told him that I would never ask that and he better not even think that giving up my kids is an option. All I ever asked of him was to be on my team and teach his child to be a decent human being.

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Submitted by Sweet T on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 1:33pm

He should become roomie's with my selfish ex. They could ride in his new car to anger management classes together.

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Submitted by Sweet T on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 1:38pm

The could also spend time petting my ex's big lizard ( he got a free bearded dragon as a pet..they carry samonella) and cruzing Match for our replacements.

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 1:48pm

I told him that he should not bring another woman into his home until he gets himself and his kid under control... i.e- NEVER!

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Submitted by misSTEP on Wed, 06/04/2014 - 1:37pm

As much as BM made our lives a real pain in the ass, I am so happy my DH didn't want to give up fighting for his kids. That would have changed my opinion of him.