It's been pretty quiet around here which means BM had forgotten about SD and rarely saw her...so BM called DH a few days ago and demands holiday time....PLEASE TAKE HER AND DON'T COME BACK! Tired of dealing with a whiny suckpants kid that is not mine. I try to be patient with SD she is mostly a good kid and has a lot to deal with since BM comes in and out of her life at her own leisure.....just need time away from SD...it is so hard to be a Step.