In a very positive way, I discussed with the skids the upcoming marriage of BM. I said BF seems like a very nice guy (He is. although, this is his 3rd marriage; 2nd broke up over step kid issues(hmmmm)) Imagine my SURPRISE when the skids said ehhhh he is okay, we really do not feel close to him. Why the surprise?? This guy, according to the skids, has walked on water for the past year... and I am thinking he has been around for 1 yr. I have been around for 6 and on more than one occasion have picked up the slack for their mother. (I don't do that anymore... if its her time than she uses her resources to get-er-done, plaine and simple.) and they loathe me.. or at least treat me like they do.

Any way, from recent events ( him not catering to their my poor planning is your emergency program), I'm thinking that the step dad has been putting the hammer down and they don't like it!

Message to BM- Paybacks are a Bitch!!!

Message to new Step Dad.. Good F***ing luck!! I got your back!! If you need help... www.steptalk.org will do you wonders!!! I am half tempted to place that in a wedding card for him....