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All I have to say is WOW being Disengaged must be working... S.S. email DH

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Submitted by Pink49 on Tue, 05/22/2012 - 4:44pm

I cannot believe my SS can be soooo self -center , I don't know if anybody read my POST earlier when I first started coming to this WEBSITE , but I've been married for 22 years. This year i started to disengaged from my stepkids because they are so disrespectful to me and DH... It all started last for my DH 60 birthday party. me and my husband went back to church just for everything and GOD fulfilled the emptyness I had in my heart from losing my daughter (2000) from a Medical Desiese. and so on. We both did our confirmation together which was so beautiful.. We also invited his MOM to , at the end of the confirmation when it was over, we walk to the back of the church, to my amazement his Mother crying ? I thought because she was happy that we did our confirmation? I went to go hug her and she said I needed to REPENT because I had alot to repent for?? She said the Grand KIds misses thier GF and how dare me take that away. ??? I said are you talking to me she said YES I'M, talking to you!!! I just look at her and walk away from her. I told my DH what was she talking about ??? She believes all the lies from her adult grandkids??? Next day I go have lunch with a friend I called DH just to check up on him and he Told me his Son email him ? this is from his son
(SS)- You had communion n confirmation today and didn't invite me. What the hell is wrong with you? You wife has you confused. You think God is gonna save you from you bull shit you wife is doing. Please you got another thing comeing too you. . You guys both lost your dam mind. I bet you wife is real happy now she dont have any kids and she wants you too be that way too!!!!!!!!!!!! Well I hope your happy now!!!!!! I will let the kids know you forgot about them now.
responed from(DH) You are so wrong that is all I can say,I think of my grand kids every minute, your unwillingness to forgive is what is making the situation worse,telling the kids I forgot about them another error on your part.

Wow is that crazy... is my disengaging finally getting to him ??? or them !!!
please reply
Thank You

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Submitted by overitall on Tue, 05/22/2012 - 5:23pm

I read your earier post, but it did not give much info. Disengaging can be getting to you ss and he is just getting more frustrated. I know my disenaging has "gotten" to my ss, but he is younger so it is different.
I'm sorry for your daughter and to be blunt, your ss is just a jerk (worse, but won't type it)for the comments. Glad to see your DH doesn't fall for his comments

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Submitted by Pink49 on Wed, 05/23/2012 - 10:38am

@ Overitall , I'm sorry you couldn't get to the post earlier , but it was under LOLA then forgot my password so I had rename myself again? I wonder if I can cut in paste? anyways you are right about my DH not falling for his crap !! he is the biggest Jerk I know, he said alot worse about me and about my child that she been gone for 11 years and for me to get over it. !!! This websites really helps and keeps in line and not to forget about the real situation here. Thanks for your support it really means alot to me. !!

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Submitted by overitall on Tue, 05/22/2012 - 5:27pm

Also, it looks like you posted this in Adult StepChildren. I have read from others that you get more responses if you post under general forum.

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Submitted by Pink49 on Wed, 05/23/2012 - 10:47am

@ StepAside Thank you for your reply it amazes me how much you know about this stuff (LOL) I hope one day I don't give a dam and continue with life without looking back~! Dirol You said it all... no more tears from me! little by little I'm getting stronger and enjoying the people who I talk too! There is no judgement like the S.S. has on me and theirs wifes !!. Its been 9 mths already !