Bless your heart BM, this sure has backfired
I think BM's manipulation, poison attitude and high conflict ways may have backfired. I think she believed the more she manipulated the kids, the more she created drama and acted like a saint, and the more she called him a horrible father and brought up how "he used to be" she could control everything. I think her BS has finally taking a toll. DH does not care. He does not care if they are here. If they are there. He keeps saying he just wants to be happy, and me and dd4 are what make him happy.
I tried to casually bring up the unopened toothbrushes etc. He went on a rant about how he knows they dont brush there teeth. That everytime he walks in the bathroom and see's all of it sitting on the counter he just gets dissappointed.
DH is giving up. Good job BM, ur kids are growing up to be sucky people just because ur mad at their dad. It sure is working out so far...
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Just wait, it will get better
Just wait, it will get better, there will be a day when they turn on her and she will beg for help.
Just be careful
That someday BM will say she can not handle SK and want you to take the broken SK
This is exactly what BM here
This is exactly what BM here did and the replies above are exactly the result.
I really think we are powerless to do a anything about it. We can either give in and let BM rule our world or oppose (even by the inaction method of ignoring) and do what we think is right but either way, the skids turn out to be a product of her shi**y parenting.
Just wait
we were in the same boat. BM and her SO trashed DH and myself horribly. They allowed the SS’s to treat DH like scum and say the most horrible things to him. They taught them to manipulate to get what they want and when they don’t get it they turn viscous. Eventually they stopped speaking to DH after being as nasty as they could be. Just a few months later BM and her SO are begging DH to “talk to” the SS’s. Seems the SS’s have now turned on BM and SO. After DH had to endure years of crappy behavior and treatment from the SS’s and BM/SO...they are pleading for DH to fix it so The SS’s will treat them better???? DH Is ignoring their pleas....let them deal with the evil spawn they created.
Be patient...it all comes back around to bite them in the fanny
Thanks for the advice
Thanks for the advice everyone! I do hope it all comes back to hurt her.