Since SS8s still in state custody and SS10 got to go back to his mom, I've begun to notice a trend that is not to myself or FDHs liking. SS10 was always the laid back easy kid that just didn't give or have many issues. SS8 was the focus of the attention due to his behavioral issues and mom issues. Now BM has only SS10 at home, and since that has happened, he refuses to speak to me unless told to, he refuses to dochores the other kids have to do unless FDH directly tells him. He couldn't even be bothered to thank my family for his Easter treats. He barely speaks to FDH on the phone visitation and as usual BM is hovering. He won't talk to us about school, about anything fun or interesting he's done,and since he saw that therapist BM chose against the CO rules giving FDH final say and he said no, he's really not talking at all. I'm at a loss.