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BM and SD bullied me in the grocery store

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 1:36pm

I am going to do what another poster did and write my post in the following comment. Because I think it was to long 2 post or something.

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 1:37pm

After reading all of your comments yesterday I cried. You guys made me feel like I am beautiful and I actually felt pretty. Today I wore my hair in a crimped long ponytail; I had on this lovely purple silk long sleeved shirt that showed of my model like figure, skinny jeans with leather boots that stopped under my knees. I felt like a show stopper like and exotic model, pale skinned and all. And then my bubble burst.

I went to the store to get some veal for dinner and low and behold BM and mini BM are there. I tried to hurry past them but with the boots on I am about 6ft1 so of course they saw me. And BM walks over to me and tries to start a seen. “Hey so you wanna throw my baby out of her dad's house?” I ignore her and head over to the meat. She continues. “Bitch I know you hear me". She had everyone staring at us. I grabbed my meat and headed to the register. SD runs up to me “I know you hear my mom talking to you. And you call me disrespectful". I walk up to the cashier. BM is yelling “Vampire ass bitch don't make me embarrass you up in this store". The cashier tells me to just ignore them and I told her I am. The cashier asks them to leave the store. They leave and I finish paying and put on my sunglasses and walk to my car. BM and SD are there. "Hey ghost face When you gonna answer me?” I ignore her only thing I said to her was “I’m about to back the car up so I suggest you move". And I drove home.

I think she may be calling DH after work to yell about how I disrespected her. I don't care. I am a little upset because I was feeling so good today and she ruined it. I felt like her little outburst had everyone staring at me and it was uncomfortable. I am tired of them so tired. I left DH a message and he said he will handle this when he gets off work "for once and for all" whatever that means. I am just gonna let him handle this.

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Submitted by oldone on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 1:45pm

Well if I'd been in that store I'd have been staring at the trailer trash BM and mini BM. Who in their right mind would ever think badly of you for being the victim of abuse from this trash?

It may be time for a restraining order.

I had someone making fun of my accent (very country appalachia) when I was young at a party with all new people. I left the grouping and the guy followed me making comments. I just ignored him. The others who were there ended up hating him and went on to be ultra nice to me. I was very self conscious about my voice as I'd just moved to an urban area where I did stand out.

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Submitted by fedup13 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 2:05pm

My thoughts exactly. Everyone was staring at them, not her, and a restraining order would be very justified.

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Submitted by StickAFork on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 10:57pm

^This.
BM showed herself to be nothing but trailer trash. SHE looked bad. If anything, you should feel proud of yourself for ignoring her.
I bet you're beautiful. I'm kinda jealous. Sounds kinda exotic, and it sounds like your DH thinks you're as beautiful as a model.

I'm guessing BM is so jealous of you that she can't think straight. Isn't this the SD who cut up all your pretty underthings? I think they're just crazy jealous of you. And THAT should make you want to float!

ETA: Wait! Isn't this the BM who WORE HER WEDDING RING and then compared it to yours?? Honey, she's so jealous I'll bet she dreams of being you every night. It's KILLING her.

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Sun, 03/03/2013 - 12:41am

When you lay it out like that It kinda makes me laugh because you are right. When you add it all up since day one BM does seeem to be very jealous of me. She just brings me down so much that I failed to look at it as her own personal problem and nothing to do with me. She and her Daughter are probably just jealous and insicure. My whole life I have been picked on and never felt good enough but I guess if someone has to put all that effort into trying to bring me down I am pretty awesome lol. Just thinking about all the crazzy crap they have done to me makes me laugh because they are the ones making themselves look stupid. They are the ugly ones not me.

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Submitted by notagain2012 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 1:48pm

I would have called the cops, used the cashier as a witness, and charged them both with harassment. Way beyond restraining order, they were waiting at ur car. They could have hurt u.

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Submitted by MarriedaBalless... on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 2:08pm

THIS! What they did was criminal. It's not too late to call the cops and press charges.

I'm sorry they hurt you and ganged up on you. You don't deserve what they are doing to you. I hope you DH has the balls to demand respect for you and make stern boundaries around you.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 2:32pm

Next time hold your head up, flip her the bird walk up to any nearby employees and request the cops be called turn and smirk at BM.

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Submitted by Purplemom on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 2:33pm

Time for a restraining order. Your h should use all of his parenting time to sign that little brat up for every self help course he can find.... And haul her ass to a soup kitchen to work. What a bunch of trash.

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Submitted by big momma on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 2:47pm

I am so proud of you for having self control and not responding to their behavior. I agree that people were looking at her, not you. Definately time for restraining order. No joking this behavior shows no boundaries and harassment. Hold your chin up. You probably looked fabulous. This is what set her off!

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 2:49pm

Yeah, I agree with everyone...get the authorities involved in some way. And at this point, maybe pressing charges against sd would really help her in the long run. She will learn that this behavior won't get her anywhere good in juvie.

I'm so sorry for what you're going through. (((HUGS)))

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Submitted by misSTEP on Mon, 03/04/2013 - 10:09am

Do what you can to boost your self esteem and body image. Maybe counseling, if that would help.

Next time you are in a situation like this (hopefully NEVER!), stand all of your 6 foot plus height and look DOWN on that scum and scumette with disdain and a slight sneer on your face....like you are a princess and you just caught a whiff of rotten fish when your servants rushed up to you....

THEY are the ones who everyone will be staring at...and wondering what LOONEY BIN they just escaped from!

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Mon, 03/04/2013 - 11:03am

Next time this happens (which with these two, I am sure there will be a next time) pull out your phone and start recording them. Seriously. Document this.

You are a beautiful person, and you do NOT deserve to be treated this way. They are gum on the bottom of your shoe. Annoying. You are better than that, and your proved it.