After SD's false report of abuse to police. And after pouring out my heart to DH and letting him no under any circumstances there is just absolutely no way I can live in the same house as SD we cam to a conclusion. DH is going to sublease a place just until summer and stay there with SD and really try to work on their relationship and get into her head. DD and I will continue to stay in our own home while mommy works from home and gives her lots of love and attention. DH and I are going to skype and phone call a lot and have date nights while SD16 will be be at BMs. When the school year starts up again BM and SD have been discussing boarding school if DH can chip in a little or she will just stay with BM. What ever work for them not really my business. I just want nothing and no one to come in the way of me being a good mother to my DD. I cant live in fear hoping SD is spreading lies about me and plotting and scheming to make my life suck. Her parents have failed her and its their job to deal with the monster they have created not mines. I do hope one day she will mature and maybe we could get to a better place and be apart of each others life. I do love her in my heart its just some things I can no longer put up with. Its sad that DH and I have to be apart for a while buts its really our only option at this point.

I really appreciate all of you who where thinking of me and caring about me . That means more to me than you know. I feel alone a lot and not understood. Like my feelings don't matter . Its nice to know I have this community of fellow step parents in my corner . ( kisses and lots of hugs all around). BTW DD says hi and "mommy please change me" lol.