UNBELIEVABLE
First, I get a lovely message from BM, stating that she will not open my email I sent because she doesn't think sending email between us is good (better than talking to the witch), then she proceeds to send me an email, and copies my DH in---on what she thinks I got him for his Bday---WHAT? I just want to B slap her. Of course it is what I got him, and I am sure that SD probably mentioned it, but why would anyone copy in the person who it is for!!!!!
I am also starting to think she is wanting DH back again---has made several sexual type comments to him, not come ons, per se, almost mean type of things, but this tends to be a deep rooted sign that someone really wants that person.
BM also has asked SD19 to move into an apartment with her (leaving hubby are we)---Thankfully, SD said no way----also made hints to DH that if she moved to an apartment near us, rather than 40 min away, could she get more time with SD16---NOT!!!! She is so acidic.
How to I handle her doing this crap and trying to know everything in our lives that is none of her business?
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You need to do
You need to do readnotify.com on all emails you send her. We started that, and are amazed at how many times our BM would read emails and not respond. She would send texts back saying she is too busy to read our emails, unless "it's urgent" or "very important" (she was being sarcastic). I would log in, and she would have read them three times by then. We just laugh. The first 25 emails are free, then it's $4 a month for a subscription that allows 75 emails a month or something like that.
Weird
Your H needs to shut those comments down.
If I were you, I'd let him deal with her and I wouldn't email her or talk to her. You don't have to, he does.
Don't worry about what she asked or what she wants SD to do. You're letting her take up headspace.
In the future, I wouldn't tell SD what I got DH for his b-day.
I've gotten the same "I'm
I've gotten the same "I'm not reading this because..." email!!! haha and you KNOW those hiefers read every word until it's permanently stuck in their brains. I find it funny that each time I have gotten one it's after an email that is about a topic where she looks bad, no matter how polite I try to be in it there is no way to make this woman not loook bad and she gets herself all in a huff. I copy my husband on every email I have ever sent BM and since we bouth us Outlook, we foward every email thateither of us have sent to an online email account so we don't lose the emails if our computers crash. Quick note: some email accounts will allow you to have a delivery receipt and a read receipt without having to pay for it.
yes, I copy
everything to DH and he does same to me, as we have had so many litigations that we have to save everything in case we have to go to court again.
i would have responded the same to her....
that i was not reading her emails as they are not important enough to read.......
Give her the stupidity right back.
********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************
Hmmmm
Sounds like she's up to something (but I'm always suspicious of people). Do you think she meant to BCC DH on the e-mail and just CC'ed him by mistake? What is she up to that she doesn't want your e-mails? Is she afraid of something being documented? I'd keep an eye on her. And be careful of what you say to SD, even if you are on the best of terms. Little bits of info always have a way of getting out. I'm sure there was no malice, but BM can use it however she likes. Personally, I don't talk to SD or SS about anything personal. Period. No problems so far.