The evil one
Hi there, I feel like I am ready to walk out of my life with (sg). His seven yr old daughter appears to be a nightmare u can't wake up from. She lives with us permanently, as her mother is a disfunctional freak who does drugs and is in n out of jail constantly. The evil one ( daughter) lies continually about everything for no apparent reason, tries to play (sg) n myself off each other n cause arguments. (Sg) is going to court Monday in an attempt to retain full custody of the child and I have voiced that I don't want anything to do with this, as she isn't changing her behaviours n probably won't. Her mother has been diagnosed with bi- polar disorder n several other mental health issues. It really makes me wonder, is this girl her mother in the making or wat?.. Do I leave or do I stay, I Jst don't knw wat to do, this is my worst nightmare.
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Bi-polar is hereditary, and
Bi-polar is hereditary, and people who have that usually have another mental condition too. From my experience which is not professional, I have learned that the apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree. How does her dad deal with her behavior and lies?
Thank you for yr comment,
Thank you for yr comment, I've actually discussed the fact that bi- polar can be inherited, and the fact that (sg's) daughter displays similar traits to her mother, even at the age of seven!, I wonder if there are tests that can be done?.
Dad doesn't do much at all
Dad doesn't do much at all about her behaviour! He talks to her about it n tells her not to do it again! Sometimes I Jst want to throttle her, and I am soooooo frustrated ATM I Jst want to scream!
Ugh, that's a tough one. I
Ugh, that's a tough one. I get where you are coming from, and I wouldn't have wanted to do it either... but with a death there's really no way to say no without looking like an ass.
My worry would be that grandad would be "dying" for one week, then a few more days, then maybe a few more.......
The daughter constantly tries
The daughter constantly tries to. Create arguments, by lying to both of us, giving us both different stories, she makes things up and I think she actually believes her own lies. She loses control n then five minutes later she is fine n then continues same. Very very deceitful at all times, u can't believe a word that comes out of her mouth. She has also done some really bad things, one of which I nearly lost it completely. But I don't think I sold discuss that on line!!
You hit the nail on the head,
You hit the nail on the head, (sg) doesn't do anything about her behaviour, when n if he does, he just tells her not to do it again!! We are arguing a lot, and thecdaughter seems to enjoy this!! Which I find disturbing. I want to try to continue, but feel backed into a corner. I've also discussed with him the fact that if she is like this now, wat on earth will we be dealing with in the not too far future!!!