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purpledaisies's picture

Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 11/30/2012 - 12:40pm

Ive been plannimg dhs 40th bday for over a month now and he knew to not have any plans sat. What does he do? Not go to schopl and has to go.to.sat school and then work. I specificly told him to get off that day. Grrr so freaking pissed that his dad is not that important to him.

Not like he didmt have enough time to make sure thid didnt happen. Little jerk!!!

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oneoffour's picture

Submitted by oneoffour on Fri, 11/30/2012 - 7:50pm

So, leave him out of the plans. Even now with SSs 19 and 21 I never expect them to turn up until they appear on the doorstep. They were not erll brought up to know the importance of being thoughtful and considerate of otehr peoples plans. But they are learning ... like the time SS21 was late for dinner and got leftovers. "No sweetie, dinner was at 7pm so you could get here after work. We do not hold dinner for someone who pops by and vists a friend on the way here."

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Fri, 11/30/2012 - 8:14pm

I think he's a teenager, and like many teens, they don't want to be around their parents. I would continue and leave him out of the plans. Hopefully when he is an adult (and living away from BM) he will realize, like many people do, that he acted like an a$$ and will have become a better person with whom DH can have a successful relationship.