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why do i feel irritated?

purpledaisies's picture

Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 7:44pm

When we dropped the boys off at home ss13 wanted dh to look at his gocart. It wasn't running right. Now its not that big of a deal and bm didn't come out til we were leaving. His boys are good kids.

But I feel that beinq at yuck house is so wrong. And I don't like the idea of dh helping them at her house.

O will let it go with out saying anything. But why do I feel this way?

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overworkedmom's picture

Submitted by overworkedmom on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 7:53pm

Because there was a time when they were together and it makes you want to hurl? That's how I feel at least Wink

We can't help it, we love these men and cope the best we can with the crazy exes and kids. It can make us a little crazy at times too for the stupidest reasons. It's ok though, we are entitled to our feelings!

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Submitted by oneoffour on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:17pm

When Dh would stop by his ex's house (prev. their family home) to look at something belonging to his sons I had the fear she would suck him into her vortex and he would forget he was married to me and move back in with her. Illogical? A bit...But you never know! Right? :jawdrop:

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Submitted by Onefootout on Mon, 07/15/2013 - 10:26pm

If DH has to spend time at BMs house to work on kid's go cart, then IMO go cart should go back to DH's house to stay. If BM can't find another man to work on the go cart, it should be at DH's house. I wouldn't put up with that, but I'm pretty strict with certain boundaries. That's just me.

Why can't these BM's find their own men to the the men's work. Two separate households, meaning separate. How hard is that to understand? You ladies are much more reasonable than I would be.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 12:17am

To clear up yuck didn't ask dh to look at the gocart. Ss13 did before we got there. And dh didn't buy the gocart he has nothing to do with that part. Ss13 just didn't know why it wouldn't stay running.

However dh said when we left he really didn't want yo work on it as it could bite him in the butt he more or less did it toake SS feel better.