Weird day yesterday. No word from SD14 still, since her birthday last month when DH stopped by and she basically dissed him. He's texted a few times since then to just say hello, love you, miss you. No response. Oh but she responded to DH's brother when he wanted to take her out to Adventure Golf and amusement parks and she responded to granddaddy when he sent her money for her birthday. Of course. Materialistic selfish bitch.

Anyhow, so yesterday, DH gets to thinking that it's been a couple weeks since he's reached out to SD, so he texts her simply I love you. Then her therapist that she hasn't seen since June (because she kept lying for attention so we stopped paying for visits and her mom doesn't think she needs therapy so won't take her) emails DH asking how SD is doing. He responds back with it's pretty much all been downhill since her last visit, she's been caught having phone sex, actual sex, lying, etc. She's now at mom's full-time where there are no rules, no boundaries, no consequences for her action and she's ignoring everyone else.

Then we're at dinner and his dad drops by because he was out running errands and saw our vehicle at Applebee's. He says he got a phone call today from SD! Holy shit it's only been since the night before her birthday, over a month ago. She was bragging about getting good grades and asked if he'd take her out to dinner to celebrate. Of course, always wanting something! DH's dad asked her if she planned on calling her father, she said NO. Again, selfish PAS'd bitch.

So, DH thought it was quite strange that for weeks, there's been no contact, no word, no mention of SD and then in one day, several instances. He thinks she may be coming around and may contact him soon. I told him not to get his hopes up and secretly I'm hoping she waits to ever call him until like a few days before Christmas so it's completely obvious that the ONLY reason she's calling is for presents.

Anyhow, just had to get that off my chest as it was bothering me last night and after 4 margaritas and a half a bottle of wine, I started to spew hatred for the beast and had to bite my tongue since I didn't want to ruin an otherwise perfect night. He'd sent me flowers at my office yesterday and we were having a nice dinner and night at home, so I just stopped before I said something that upset him.

I told him I was disengaging from both SD and BM's bullshit and that's what I intend to do!