well spring break is now ruined
I drive a school bus, so when kids are out so am I. This has always been a good thing, but this is firsst year with ss here. As you know he has been here six months and driving me insane. His mother called Sunday and said she would come to get him Saturday for the week per custody agreement. Its a six hour drive and was supposed to be leaving about six, seven our time. So when i got up at nine, by dad, dad, dad, at my door, i just told myself just make it til lunch and you will get a break. So anyway he wanted to call his mom and see how close she was. So dad tells him in a bit, he is trying to sleep. When husband gets up he gives her a call and guess what. She wasnt able to leave this morning, hopefully she will be able to tommorow. What does hopefully mean, he said she was having trouble finding a way. So she couldn't even call, had to call her, and get no definate answer from her. I'm so pissed off that she would do ss that way. He kills my nerves and was so ready for a little break, but noone should do their kid that way. If i'm not for sure about anything i'm not going to tell my kids until i am. Needless to say, he has been even more obnoxious, but i have to give him a little reason today.
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Learn this lesson. Never
Learn this lesson. Never tell SS that BM is coming to get him until you see her in the driveway.
My exh did this one time and it broke my heart to see my ODD who at the time was 2 standing at the door waiting for her dad. It never happened again.
^^This^^ Do not give the kid
^^This^^
Do not give the kid a concrete answer. Tell him she will try to come, but do not tell him she IS coming. Less heartache for them. And you have to remember the same thing yourself. Hope for the break, but expect to not have one. Less of a letdown for yourself.