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Submitted by sadlonelyone on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 3:18pm

As I've posted before, SD is moving back to home state with BM after 6 months of failed schooling here with us. DH refused to attend SD's parent teacher conference last month "because he already talked to them about SD and he already knows she's failing and is going back to BM, anyway."

Well, BM can't get SD back into her old charter school so SD was going to stay at the school in our state but go online at BM's as a last minute plan. I told the counselor I didn't want to be involved in a 3 way talk with BM about SD as I think this whole moving schools then moving states in less than a year is ridiculous. 

I told DH to plan to meet with BM and the counselor and I assumed they had. Today, the receptionist is hassling me telling me that they must meet with the counselor before SD moves out of state. We are taking SD out of state tomorrow to be with BM. 

I texted DH the link and said to get BM on board because this seems to be urgent now. Ugh I don't want this to ruin my day but wtf?! Yeah, they're busy at work, but I'm busy with 2 babies and a house to run. Poor SD.

DH just texted back and said he sent everything to BM (plus she's been on the emails from the counselor) and that she "needs to figure this shit out."

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Submitted by Stepdrama2020 on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 3:22pm

Dont you wish you could twinkle your nose and make BM disappear. I always wished that but I am even more Evil I wished that for SD too.

Good you are staying out of it. You have little ones to care for. You do your job and DH BM can do theirs.

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Submitted by sadlonelyone on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 3:54pm

Honestly, I've wished BM dead and have definitely wished DH never hooked up with her which lead to an unexpected SD..

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Submitted by sadlonelyone on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 3:57pm

I would if SD was going to be living in my home but she will now be 600 miles away and I'm opposed to this entire "plan." I am also totally powerless no matter what. 

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Submitted by ndc on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 3:57pm

I think you were wise to stay out of it.  On the other hand, your husband is being quite the negligent parent, isn't he?

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Submitted by sadlonelyone on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 4:11pm

Yes. He's always just let BM do what she wants because she always does anyway and the courts always sided with her taking time away from him every time they went back. 

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Submitted by notarelative on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 5:36pm

I know that things work differently in different places, but DH may be in for more phone calls. SD is registered in the district as residing at DH's address. Here that would be the phone number they would call. They would not be calling the number of BM who lives out of state. 
Also here, if DH tells them SD is residing out of state, they would tell him that she is unenrolled and to enroll her in the district where she resides. 

Neither DH or BM is really concerned about SD's education. 

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Submitted by sadlonelyone on Thu, 03/04/2021 - 8:08pm

Nope, neither parent seems to care too much. BM had an entire month to make arrangements but just came up with that solution this week. Like Sunday night. I had already told SD's teachers she would be leaving like 3 weeks ago and one emailed me because SD wasn't turning work in and she was concerned.