Me and my husband have not had any contact with his daughter for over 5 years and out of the blue we get a invite to her college graduation. First off the ex wife text and tell us she sent a invite out to our old address but knows we moved and knows our correct address bc she has sent there son mail there. Then my husband get's a text from the step dad stating he wish taylor and her father had a relationship. (THE STEP FATHER IS THE REASON THEY DONT). But my husband ask the ex wife if his daughter is going to speak to him at the graduation and she said NO she doesnt want to talk to you but she does within the week! I am so confused as to what to even think. So now im  stuck between should i even send her a graduation gift and if so what??