And it's been just as bad as I figured. She and the Skids have "randomly" showed up at our house a minimum of twice a week since they moved at the beginning of September. And conveniently enough it's always been when I'm at work. It's like they walk passed our house, see my car is gone, and decide to stop in and visit. They have NEVER stopped by when I've been home. Never. Probably because BM knows it's inappropriate and I would not be happy with it!

OH has made no mention of it. He actually never even told me the times they stopped by, I've just noticed things in the kids room moved and asked. He thinks it's no big deal and claims it bothers him as well (he smokes in the house when the Skids aren't here and hates it when they come in after he's been smoking). But he has not said anything to her about it and likely will not.

The even more annoying part, is the units they moved in to are right along my walking path I take with my dog, and I can see in their house and worry they'll see me and think I'm stalking them or something. So needless to say I have started walking on an alternate route. I would hate to run into BM on one of my walks, that would seriously ruin it for me. When the SKids aren't around I like to pretend they don't exist, and that includes pretending BM does not exist! Every time I have ever seen her in public without OH she will either ignore me or give me dirty looks, even IF I wave/smile/say hi.

I told OH I wanted to move. LOL. He rolled his eyes.