I posted for the first time the other day and got some good comments from people in similar situations.Dh and I are starting councelling tonight and I just hope it helps as it really is the last thing we have tried
Basically I cant put up with BM anymore ...we argue about everything she does because everything she does is so blood annoying
We have ss every other weekend ...good so far ...then whenever she feels like dropping him off on us,she lies about why she needs us to have him then always picks him up late so we cant make plans
They never arrange a time between them and my weekends are spent in constant annoyance that I havnt got a clue whats going on
She ignores his texts and calls and keeps us hanging for hours but if we say actually can we drop him off later this sunday as we would like to do something she says no Ive got plans bring him back 10am ...cutting the visit short
So is it so much to ask of the pair of them to just make concrete arrangements that all of us can stick to or am I destined tpo have all my spare time dictated by some ex of my partners
But if I get annoyed and say to DH ive had enough he just says so have I...you will only be happy when I cut ss out of my life AAARRRGGGH
Talk about missing the point
Sick and tired of being the evil one in every situation ...they created this mess not me .DH puts up with it cus he loves his son but Im not sure what my motivation is anymore
Hoping the councelling can help
Thanks for listening...Ifeel a bit better...for now!