Please read or ask if you have questions on past background. SD is back to her old ways. Since we have been back from CO she has only came over one time. We had a rona scare this past week and all were tested and it came back neg. We ended up not being able to see her on her bday in which she was super upset.... thought that was funny because she never wants to come over. Well we had a Bday dinner for her this weekend in which DH suggested her to bring her BF with knowing he has only meet him once out of three months of dating and that he could come over and have a fire. Well she did not want that or came up with whatever lame story. Once we got home she decided to go to the basement to watch a movie. I stated why not watch a movie with you dad since your hardly ever over here and yours say you miss him all the time......... plus he just dropped 200 buck on dinner for you and your friends. Welp she decided not to.

I got up around 2:30a since my 10 month old just woke up... i feed him then my husband told me that his daughter was not here and was not picking up her phone. He ended up calling his ex because she had trackers on the phone. So we loaded up the baby and started searching for her. After an hour we knocked on the BFs house for his mom to answer. I guess the BF was with her and just dropped her off. He stole his moms car and does not have a license. Either does SD. We got home and she was not there but then a few min later she showed up on the front door steps. She was high and tried to lie about that as well as where she was. DH stated, well that is funny because the police and I went to your bfs house. The next morning her mom came to pick her up and talk about what was going on. BM asked if she did drugs and SD said no so BM said well will be going to get drug test and not piss test by hair. Then she came clean because she did not want them to cut her hair. She admitted having sex with her bf that night. We also found fully naked photos of her and them smoking and shit. Not sure what BM is going to if they are going to take her new car way or what but we just were informed that SD is trying to move in with a friend.

We have tried everything from sending her to Turn about ranch to locking her down to working with her on things she wants like clothes and going out more. I want to sell all of her shit to pay off the loan we are still paying when we sent her to that camp. I also went to lock her bank account and sell her car and say there you go. Good luck paying your bills now that you think you’re grown. She has extra money because she pays for nothing. We pay for it all. So why continue. You do not want to respect the basic ass rule in the house and think you are entitled and grown then go figure it out but you will not be leaving with anything that is in these houses because we paid for all of it.

I get it we all do dump shit but, shit she really does not care at all. When I moved out of my mums, I had my clothes that I paid for, my phone and car. I was responsible for paying for all of that since I was working. I have been working since I was 14 and mostly because my mom had no money at all for extra things. So I helped her as best as I could. These kids are so ungrateful and I am so scared my son might try and be like that. I am tried of all the stress she put on this home and she is not even here full time anymore. When she is around us she complains about everything and half the time I do not even listen to what she says... because its mostly lies. I want to light her up and tell her exactly how she is and the horrible person she has become and that I do not want her around my son because of her negativity.

A friend of ours did that with her SD... kicked her out and made her live with her mom. There are no photos of her at all in the home. I understand why. This girl attacked the SM and my friends kids whom we’re 7 and 9 at the time. SD was 16. I have been trying really hard to sit back and have DH handle it because they created this little bitch and they need to figure it out but if her mom does kick her out... there is no way in hell she is moving back in with us. She will realize since she has nothing at all that it will be hard to survive out there and still have money to party.