I haven't been on here in ages...I thought to come on here to vent a JILLION times, but time always escaped me.

Last time I was here there was major drama in my life...BM lied and said DH hit her, so he got arrested...He went to jail for a few hours...She was trying to get back at him for her going to jail for actually attacking DH in front of police officers...

Anyway, all of the charges were dropped, and we're back to the closest thing to normal. The good thing that has come out of it is that DH has cut off all communication with her and parallel parents 100%. Unfortunate for SD as she sometimes misses activities because her mom will randomly show up at them, and DH doesn't feel safe around her because he doesn't know what kind of stupidness she's going to try...

SD hasn't changed. She's still got a lot of behavioral problems. DH's and my son is now 3, and the jealousy from SD is growing. We're trying to work through that, but it's hard. Also, I'm preggers with my 2nd (due Mid May), and we're very happy about that. Like our previous pregnancy, we don't plan to let SD know about it until the last possible second...Last time, it was when I was 7 months...We were trying to mitigate BM's acting out...

DH is going to have to take BM back to court soon as she's being a dope. The last time they went, the judge told her that she was responsible for giving DH a list of SD's activities or whatever 2 weeks in advance. She refuses to do it. So she will send him a text message telling him he needs to take SD somewhere an hour before she's supposed to be there...So she misses the events...She also has her enrolled in some program, but she won't tell DH the time of her class and when it ends...DH has called the place a million times, and they haven't called him back, so on those days, he doesn't get her as he's not sure what time to pick her up. So DH misses one of his overnight visits...

4 years married to me and over 8 years not in any type of relationship with DH (SD will be 9 in January), you'd think she'd move on...Guess not...