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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 7:00pm

BM defies logic 90% of the time. I know that BM's in general don't want to see their exes with any one else or happy. But... come on you LEFT!

BF and BM had to take SS4 to doctor appointment about 2 hours away. They road together - because that is cost affective. No one talked on the way down I guess but on the way back BF called me to tell me that he was on his way and closed with "bye, I love you" as usual. BM started crying! He said she put her sun glasses on and tried to say that she wasn't but once busted she then changed her story to something about SS4 was upsetting her.

Then she is getting married soon and I guess she bought tuxes for both boys and today she told BF that he could keep them because SS6 told her that we were engaged. BF was like no I don't want them and we aren't even engaged - well she smiled. I asked Why he said anything she was just fishing for information.

But it's like go you left get over it, BF has moved on (and up) Smile

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Submitted by whatamidoing2do on Wed, 09/07/2011 - 7:14am

Kind of the same situation here. You left my fdh for the guy you are now married to....why do you care if he is atmy house, dating, etc. I have been divorced (he left for another). I didn't care who he was with. I was just glad it wasn't me with him! You have yourself a manipulative BM. You have my sympathy!

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Wed, 09/07/2011 - 2:03pm

I thought it would be good for them. They never talk - she just talks AT him. So he had her trapped in a car for 4 hours (there and back) and he let her have it on a few things. Will she change? - probably not but at least he told her so when shit hits the fan (again) he can say I told you so.

BM has tried to break us up so many times since we started dating. In May they finally went toe to toe over me and her place in OUR relationship. So I also thought it would be a good time to show BM that BF still doesn't care what she thinks and that she has no affect on his love for me, like him saying I Love You to me in front of her. And all day she kept trying to get him to do things for her, spend more time with her and he kept telling her "No, SisterNeko is making dinner I want to go home to her". She even invited him (more so SS4) into her house.

Was it weird - yes, but I wasn't worried. BF is so mad at her lately, I knew they weren't going to rekindle their love. lol