It not dangerous by any means but it annoys me when things don't make sense and it's hard on the boys (ages 9 and 11) when things don't happen the way BM says they will.

Original post: https://www.steptalk.org/node/231493

Today we dropped the boys off and BM announced that she took the whole day to pickthe boys up next Tuesday (our week to have them) to take the to the school open house and then take Ss11 to confirmation at her chruch.

First of all DH and I always go to the open houses to explain the situation to the teacher because BM does not tell them anything or provide any of DH's information dispite us have 50/50 every other week joint custody. So it's not like we aren't going our selves, DH is going to tell her that we are taking them and she is welcome to show up when we do.

Second she told use when she signed him up for Confrimation that it was on Wednesday's at 4:30. So we checked the website and it is Wednesday's but at 6. So he does not have confirmation that at all.

Third and this is just annoying to me, who take a whole day off for a 3:30 school function?

So basically now we have to fact check BM on EVERYTHING because she can't seem to get anything right. I know she has had hinted at medical issues in the past (for sympathy) so it could be something as simple as low iron or bad as a drinking problem. I know it's worse when she is tired and DH said she looked tired today.