self centered SKid - just go with it or explain the facts of life?
SS7 has been dying for attention lately and going through some anxiety issues. But he seems to think that everything revolves around him lately, what he wants, what he does, what he thinks he needs are more important than anything else. Basically a normal 7 year old. But with the anxiety issues it become a really big deal to him when I say something about it. But I want so bad to set the record straight and let him melt down (usually it's a fake melt down lately to get attention, sympathy or his way. that is what the Therapist said)
for example...
he is really into his DS but he still wants attention so he will follow me around playing it and give me a play by play as to what he is doing. I just snapped at him that I really don't care just play your game. There is nothing more boring to me than watching some one else play a single person video game. When I suggest playing something we can both enjoy he pouts that I don't do it right. I game too and I don't ask him to watch me (but he does) and then sits/stands there and tells me how to play even though he doesn't know that game - also annoying. I usually ask him to be quiet (which last 5 minutes).
Now he wants to invite the neighbor kid over, so that he can bring his Gameboy and watch him play one of his old games on it - should I tell him no that the little boy across the street isn't coming over just so he can watch you play HIS game?
And he also has it in his head that I need to buy him a Gameboy - because he found two old Gameboy game that don't work in his DS. He doesn't like the answer I gave him of throwing them out because they are useless. Oh and he wants a 3DS too! Lately I have been telling him that FDH didn't leave me any money but he doesn't like that answer, it's true as a SAHM i have no income and with the wedding just 2 months away I am not on FDH's account yet. Not that I care because I don't need money, I don't usually go shopping with out FDH.
Lastly we are going camping this weekend and SS7 doesn't want to go, he think we should stay home and do nothing, which we have done all week, and everyone else wants to go. When I say that I really want to go he just says 'oh' then pouts.
Isn't it just me or does this kid need a wake up call? On the plus side I hope he start the therapy next week for the anxiety. We have the book here and I and so about ready to sit down and start reading it to him.
Later today my parents are coming to town to take US to look at places for the reception (and out to dinner), FDH has to work late so SS7 is coming with and that should go over SO well. going to try to play up that he is 'involved' in the wedding. But yet not looking forward to him whining the whole time.
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Is this an only child skid
Is this an only child skid thing? SD8 is the same way. I have to constantly tell her I don't want a play by play. Drives me crazy.
My own SD8 is the same way,
My own SD8 is the same way, except it involves play-by-plays of the Sonic the Hedgehog videos she watches on YouTube. She's an only child.
Dear Lord.
Sadly my sKid has a brother
Sadly my sKid has a brother (SS5) but doesn't want to talk to him or play with him. I don't mind play with them from time to time but I am not going to sit there and watch them play by themselves.
I can top that. SD wants my
I can top that. SD wants my dh to play with her toys while she sits and watches and bosses him around.
Glad to know I am not the
Glad to know I am not the only one. My SS5 loves more than anything to have an adult sit there watching him while he plays video games. I have tried to gently convey that it is not particularly interesting to watch someone entertain themselves, but so far it has not been effective.
My SS would follow me
My SS would follow me everywhere and talk non-stop. He couldn't stand not having someone's attention during all waking hours.
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My skid is EXACTLY like this!! Has been that way since I met him when he was 8. He is now 19 and still the same. Very annoying.
^^^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
^^^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Sounds like the boy across
Sounds like the boy across the street. Does he have a touch of Asperger syndrome, maybe? Maybe at the high end of the spectrum.
This works in my world.
This works in my world. Would it for skids? Who knows. But they arent in charge, now are they?
You guys r on fire! Lol. I
You guys r on fire! Lol. I agree with all of itbut FDH tries to negotiate and BM just does what he wants