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SisterNeko's picture

This may be wrong but that is what I feel like asking the Therapist. Last week I took SS7 to his first session and during that session the Therapist asked me, "You and FDH seem to be having the most trouble, why do you think that is?" I thought about it and I told her what we seem to be doing when SS7 has these 'Freak outs' (that is what he calls them). And I think she knew that I wanted to say more but couldn't in front of SS7 (who tells his mom everything) so the Therapist invited me to the next parent meeting.

Any way BM dropped the sKids off tonight and SS7 was clearly over tired and in one of his moods. He was dropped off at 5 and went to the bathroom 3 times within the first hour, which is something that the Therapist says he does to release stress (distract himself). He melted down a little at dinner so... I went into my home office and opened a word doc. I typed out everything that has happened and plan to continue to do so all week. Since I have been drafted to take SS7 to these appointments I plan to give it to the Therapist and ask her to tell me why FDH and I are having these issues.

I have FDH's support and at no point in the 'journal' do I suggest anything about BM (or SS5) - which is where we think the problems lies. He is as flustered as I am. But I also want to see if he gets better or worse as the week goes on. If we are doing something wrong I hope the lady will tell us.

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SisterNeko's picture

Thanks, it does help to write/type it out. I used to keep a BM journal but it got too full Smile It's just so frustration when we go to these meetings - any meeting really with BM. She sits there and says that everything is fine at her house and we can't prove other wise. I told FDH that if it was us and they can tell us what we need to do differently then I will do it. I hate to say it but BM will never change.