My situation is a bit weird and odd (well I think so anyway lol). I met my now DH before SD was born, three months before to be exact. The story is he dated her for a couple of months, she said she didnt want kids, she got pregnant and he broke up with her. I digested this info and figured okay so what I have two kids from my first husband, at my age most men would have kids.
That was over 6 years ago since then we got married & had kids of our own. Just two years ago SD the Wonderchild started EOW visits. Moosecow (BM) decided she needed a babysitter......oooops did I say that? I mean a Father for Wonderchild. Up until that point the CS was good enough. So at four wonderchild gets a Daddy & a couple of teen step siblings, a few young half sibs, step dogs & Daddys wife. Wonderchild for the first four years of her life was a only child, raised by two bitter men haters( Grandma moose lives with Moosecow & Wonderchild ). Yes we have had many issues.Yes this was a recipe for disaster.
I try and stay out of the drama, although every so often I get sucked in to the crazy town vortex from hell.I did wise up and cut all communication off with Moosecow over a year ago. DH is not liking dealing with Moosecow solo, thats too bad for him lol.