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Halloween Incident

smirked's picture

So DH was supposed to have Wonderchild for Halloween, his weekend to have her.Now knowing Moosecow I knew this would not happen. Sure enough she calls three days before to say Wonderchild is too sick to go to Daddy's she wouldnt want our kids getting whatever illness Wonderchild has.

First how the hell does Moosecow know three days ahead of time Wonderchild will still be ill.

Second when has Moosecow EVER cared about possibly spreading disease to our kids. She does it all the time, suddenly she cares?

Now I was not shocked at all by this, very predictable. Dh was like "Do you think Wonderchild is really sick?" OMG how thick can a man be. So I say "Awwww honey, the weekend is THREE days away, I am sure Wonderchild will be good as new by then.....dontcha think? I mean Moosecow isnt psychic, how could she know Wonderchild will be sick THREE days from now......silly Moosecow just cracks me UP."

UGH, so he calls her back and repeats what I said to him. Moosecow says she will let him know by the weekend. Yes she calls that Friday and says she is better but REALLY wants to T or T with her friendies and Moosecow. How shocking, never saw that coming(eyeroll).

So NOW after two years DH decides to get pissed. Could it be he will finally DO something about this insane set up, hold Moosecow accountable? No. His reaction? Not take Wonderchild for a couple of months to teach Moosecow a lesson.

Head meet wall, wall meet head

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Mommywood's picture

im sorry but i love your writing. I know its a serious situation, but the way you put it brought a smile to my face. Smile

Angel72's picture

sorry had to laugh at the name mousecow.
And your dh was a bobo....if his daughter wanted to T , there is nothing you can do about that. I'm sure her mother talked her into it...but i think he should have told her somehting along the lines of taking her more than ignoring his daughter more....by not picking her up more often will only alienate sd ....sad how some men act.

Angel72's picture

moosecow...lol...i'm picturing a dumb lumbering animal now..hehehhehhehhehhe

smirked's picture

Yes she is a large dumb lumbering animal with a pirate eye, huge head & snorts and growels. Very unfortunate features.

DISbelief's picture

Your DH is a dingus (no disrespect intended) but really... I could have smelled that coming a mile away! Even MY head met the wall in that one.

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ Wink

stepoff's picture

Thanks for stating it Dis!

Why ARE men so thick? I can predict every move that our BM and SD will make even BEFORE they make it. How? I can read people. It's not too hard really. I put myself in (especially) SD's manipulative little mind and think of what I would do to screw things up if I were her. And I've only known SD for 3 years and known of BM for 3 years (never even met her). It's always sooooo obvious! DH has known BM for 25 years and his daughter her entire life (20 yrs). How does he not see/get it???

smirked's picture

This is exactly what is rolling around in my head Crayon.
If I engage in this mental situation to try and do the right thing, will it stop the PASing? Probably make it worse knowing Moosecow.
If you could go back would you go through #1 first?
Shes almost 7
Gawd why am I distraught over this & The Dingus probably has not given this a second thought all week.

Thetis's picture

I love this blog. And I had to check before replying, but only a Canadian can use the nickname Moosecow with the success you did. Northern Ontario is it? Girl I wish you all the patience in the world to deal with your stiuation, you already got the humour so you're better off then alot of us! Best of luck! (Maybe go to cement walls? They seem to have more impact and durablity)

CrystalRE's picture

Makes me wonder if any of us would be here if our husbands/BF's werent weak a** clones from hell! Smile

buttercup123's picture

She is standing in the way of his visitation. I'd get a court order. We had to do that to smarten up our stupid BM which, by the way, stands for bitch mother and not bio mother-in my opinion.

stepmom2one's picture

It seems like he is punishing the child by not taking her for a visit.How does SD feel about this? How old is she again?

Janey1970's picture

Moosecow! That is hilarious. After the day I've had that is just the tonic I needed. (We have a whalebitch this end.) Anyone else give the ex's names??