Last week i wrote about my dissapointment that once again SO and I posponed our vaccation that was planned for this weekend because BM asked SO to keep the kids for 3 extra days.
Anyways, yesterday SO was talking with his parents on skype when MIL asked SO about our plans for today. SO told his mom that the vaccay is pospone since BM had something to do and couldn't have the ssons. Well, MIL became furious with SO. MIL said to SO "I'm dissapointed you chose to accomodate BM instead of keeping your promise to SM and take her on the getaway" I quietly left the room and eavesdropped from the hallway as SO tried to explain to HIS mother that "we"(SO and I) made the decision together. MIL shamed SO for bringing BM's request to me in the first place knowing that we already had plans.
I felt bad for SO but I'm glad MIL set the boundaries I was not brave enough to set for myself.

Aftewards, SO came to me and asked if I felt pressured to support him in keeping the boys this weekend. We had a heart to heart and he promises that in the future if we have a plan and BM asks him to take the boys he would just tell her no.

Thanks MIL!