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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 12/22/2010 - 12:46pm

ok so 6 months ago my dh's ex and his kids agreed to standard visitation which this year would've given him ALL of Christmas..not all of the modification is done and none of it's filed in court (the new visitation that is RIGHTFULLY dh's time on christmas). she's strict on "if it's not ordered i wont and dont' have to agree to it" but bad about, o i scheduled this on your time for the girls and have already paid for it guilt trip bs-and my dh gives in EVERY TIME! christmas is RIGHT around the corner and so far she is refusing him the extra time simply cause she can. She had them for ALL of thanksgiving now ALL of christmas too and most of last christmas too? attorney was contacted monday and as a result contacted her attorney and still NO REPLY we've been trying to get the visitation settled for over 6 months now to avoid this crap. we know he cannot force her to let him have them for the full time he is entitled to simply because it is not yet an order but omg why to bm's have to be such b's!? he didn't say a word to skids about it and ask what they wanted because he's doing everything he can to keep them out of the drama.

i can honestly say i CAN'T wait til they are old enough to see her for who she really is and how greedy and controling she is and know that they will no longer have to abide by her rules simply because they CAN!!!! i cannot stand that woman and i'm honestly counting down the years til they are 18 (5yrs and 3.5)

i know it doesnt end there because grandkids may become a conflicting issue, but here's the deal there, it'll be THEIR choice what grandkids do, and dh and i are the only once that are mature enough to know that and step back and let them be and we dont have to come around when she's there!

she took them away for father's day simply cause my dh wanted to let them do what they wanted to do to avoid simple resentment NO CALLS from them NO TIME WITH THEM THEN and even THEY gave the excuse, but we had to pack for our camp...COULDN'T MOM HAVE DONE THAT!? we even offered to drive them up there ourselves (over half a state away-JUST so they'd spend time on father's day with their dad, but NO, MOM CONVINCED THEM OTHERWISE) but when mother's day came around they wouldn't hear missing out on her to go to a camp and 1 is STILL begging to make our yearly mother's day camp out of town NOT on mother's day...SORRY in my house it's MY DAY and we'll do what lil ole SOMER wants to do miss out and shut up or get in the car and shut up

karma is a bitch and your day is coming and dh's patience is RUNNING LOW WITH YOUR SORRY ASS!

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Wed, 12/22/2010 - 2:01pm

"but when mother's day came around they wouldn't hear missing out on her to go to a camp and 1 is STILL begging to make our yearly mother's day camp out of town NOT on mother's day..."

So if I'm correct, you have the kids on mother's day? DH should have them on Father's Day, and BM should have them on Mother's Day.

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Submitted by somerg on Mon, 12/27/2010 - 7:53am

no he does not have them for mother's day. it's just like most decree's, father's day=father, mother's day=mother, they would die before "missing a mother's day with her" but yet it was ok for her to schedule a camp without talking to dh that interefered with father's day. We are firing his attorney and putting mine on the case because the hurry up and wait bs of attorney's is getting motnonous and she'll go by paper work when it gives her her way...dh is done with mr nice guy he said next time he's not required to allow something, she can kiss the dark part of his lilly white............... :sick:

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Submitted by ddakan on Thu, 12/23/2010 - 8:30pm

My bios just turned 19 and 18 this year. They told their dad that they wanted to stop going by the papers and go to my house for Christmas because we have a little guy, 9, and they want to open presents with him. It took 10 years to get to this point.

My ex agreed to have their Christmas a day early so they could come over here. I'm always about being flexible and not going by the papers and letting them come and go and live their lives because they are older. There is no need for this constant paper bullshit.

You have a long way to go to 18. Keep this support here and try to have some sanity. I know it makes you mad what a nazi cow she is. Our BM is a nasty ass c_nt. She tries to make our lives a living hell. 6 months until the last skid turns 18. Then - HALLELUYA. BUT ITS BEEN 10 SOLID YEARS OF HELL WITH THIS LIFE SUCKING BITCH!!!!